User Settings

User settings control your profile, preferences, and account actions.

Profile

• Avatar: Your profile picture

• Display name: How companions address you

• Email address: Where we send receipts, verification links, and account notifications. If you sign in with Google, changing this does not change the account you sign in with — see below.

  

Changing the Google account you sign in with

Your profile email and the Google account you sign in with are stored separately, so updating the email field above doesn't move your login. To switch to a new Google address, follow these steps in order:

1. Change your profile email to the new address first, and click the verification link sent to that inbox. The remaining steps won't work until this is done.

2. Sign out. On the login page, choose email and password, then click Forgot password. Enter your new email address and use the link to set a password.

3. Sign in with your new email address and that password to confirm it works.

4. Sign out again, choose Continue with Google, and pick your new Google account.

Your subscription, Moments balance, and chat history all carry over — it's the same account throughout.

Setting a password in step 2 removes the old Google connection. That's expected, and it's what frees up the slot for your new Google account in step 4. In between, your email and password will still sign you in.

Subscription & moments

• Subscription plan: Your tier, renewal date, and status

• Manage subscription: View details and manage your subscription

• Moments history: Log of purchases and usage

Want the full breakdown? See Moments & Payments.

Archived Chats

You can view and restore conversations you've previously archived in this section.

Restoring a Chat

If you want to continue a conversation you archived:

1. Expand the Archived Chats section.

2. Find the chat you want to restore in the list.

3. Click the Unarchive button (box with an arrow icon) next to the chat.

4. The chat will immediately reappear in your main Messages list.

Preferences

Proactive messages

Under Companion Preferences, use Proactive messages to allow or stop companions reaching out while you're away. This is an ULTIMATE feature available to accounts eligible for companion emails or with push notifications enabled on at least one device.

The global switch saves automatically and applies to all chats, for both email and push delivery. When it's on, you can also control individual one-to-one conversations in Chat Settings → Proactive messages → Save Changes. Turning the global switch off hides the per-chat switch without changing each chat's saved preference.

See Proactive Messaging for delivery requirements, the per-chat toggle, and troubleshooting.

Gender preference

• Gender: Filter companions shown by default on home & browse page by Female, Male, or Any

• Type: Filter styles shown by default on home & browse page by Realistic, Anime, or Any

Audio calls

• Audio call language: Default language for voice replies

Chat behavior

• Default content mode: Default mode for new chats (example: S3C)

• Default reply style: Choose SMS or Paragraph for new chats

• Companion message limit: Default messages per response (5, 10, Unlimited)

SMS sends multiple shorter messages.

Paragraph sends one longer message instead of multiple short ones.

If a chat still responds in short texts after switching to Paragraph, send this once:

(OOC: Please review your response instructions as they have changed - please remember to generate detailed paragraphs of natural responses rather than short texts.)

Notifications

These settings are under Communication in User Settings.

• Email Notifications: Toggle emails of product updates and alerts. On ULTIMATE, eligible accounts with a verified email address and consent to receive emails can also receive Proactive Messaging notifications by email when they have no push subscription.

• Push notifications: Shows whether push notifications are enabled on this device. Enable notifications in your browser's address bar or device settings for new feature releases and sales. On ULTIMATE, push enabled on any device also makes your account eligible for proactive messaging; eligible email users don't need to enable push.

To stop companion outreach across both channels while keeping other notifications, turn off Proactive messages under Companion Preferences.

On desktop, notifications work right in your browser, with no installation needed. On mobile, push notifications require installing Secrets as an app first. See Install the App for setup instructions.

Help

• Reset tutorials: Re-enable walkthroughs and tooltips

Account safety

• Delete account: Permanently removes your account and data.

Account deletion is permanent. This can’t be undone.

Frequently asked questions

Q: Does changing “Default content mode” affect existing chats?

• No. It only applies to new chats.

Q: How do I change reply style for one chat only?

• Open Chat Settings inside that chat.

• Choose SMS or Paragraph.

Q: Why don’t I see my moments balance here?

• Your balance shows in the top navigation.

• This page shows your moments history (the log).

Q: How do I save changes?

• Changes save automatically.

Q: I changed my email, so why does login still ask for my old Google account?

• Your profile email and your sign-in method are separate. See Changing the Google account you sign in with.

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